Showing posts with label control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label control. Show all posts

Sunday, January 13, 2013

2013




In 2013, I will not allow people who are; fake, ignorant, angry, envious, jealous, full of hate, malice nor disrespect me in this year.  If you are a person who has just one of these characteristic,  I suggest you just keep stepping. 2012 was a year I was surrounded by people of these dispositions. God has a plan for my life and I will not let the thorns vex my spirit...I love you but I do not have to engage in you especially if you are one of these characters. This should be a year we would want to put ourselves aside and let God work in our lives..If you have dreams, goals and plans these kind of people will try to hinder you, distract you and keeping you from accomplishing what you are set out to do...Remember God is in Control...stay the course  "No Weapon that Forms Against You shall Prosper and Any Tongue that Rise up Against you shall be Condemned.....

LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!!


Ultimate Woman

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

"Relationships"





"Ladies"


I’m not an expert in Relationships just speaking from experience and others.

Be mindful of your chosen Man.  Pick the man you are looking for, create a checklist.
 

A man who likes power and control enjoys the company of an insecure, low self esteem needed woman. These particular men will not have a relationship with a strong woman. She becomes a threat to him.  He creates arguments that have no meaning to them but to him. He will try to break you in spirit and will keep at it until you break, most strong women will not crack. Then the manipulation starts, “it was always there” jealousy, envy, flare up tempers out of nowhere, Commitment, "Out of the Question", only you are committed.  

Remember, this was always his character; you just did not see it until he was ready for you to.  Men who like control and power have good manipulation games.  Then you have the smooth talkers. They like to sweep you off your feet. Remember, baby and honey are generic words that most all men say when they see something they want. If he doesn't have a ground line "cell phones and beepers excuses", own apartment or house, can't do spontaneous things and definitely no commitment. When I say, "commitment" not necessarily marriage, but there are others ways to commit to a relationship. "example...all bills in your name". Now do you get where I am coming from when I say, 

"No Commitment" easy to walk away.



"Chosen Man" Depends on YOU!

Ladies Remember, you can find All these characteristics in One Man.

  

Create a Checklist. Of course he will not get all the checks, but at least 70%. Standards too High?
 

Do you have a CHECKLIST?