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RELATIONSHIPS

This is just my opinion; I'm no expert on Relationships. WE are living in a time where Relationships are just falling apart, no one wants to try to get along. Relationships is about communication, loving one another unconditional as God loves us unconditional, compromising and making it work during the good times and the bad, up and downs, trails and tribulations. Learn to listen to each other and speak edifying words that would build each other up. God gave us two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as hard before we speak. The enemy tells us we do not need each other but that is not true, we do need each other for many different reasons. God created Adam and gave him Eve so he would not be along, that should tell us something. But if you are in an abusive relationship then try to us good judgment, whether you are a female or male. No one deserves to be abused. Remember, we are not perfect; we strive to be perfect so try to see good in each other. Remove, jealousy, insecurity, assumptions, envy, lack of communication and the list could go on...but I think you get where I am going.

If you are in a Relationship Try to Make it Work especially if you have children involved.

Ultimate Woman

 

"Relationships"

"Ladies"

I’m not an expert in Relationships just speaking from experience and others.

Be mindful of your chosen Man.  Pick the man you are looking for, create a checklist.
 

A man who likes power and control enjoys the company of an insecure, low self esteem needed woman. These particular men will not have a relationship with a strong woman. She becomes a threat to him.  He creates arguments that have no meaning to them but to him. He will try to break you in spirit and will keep at it until you break, most strong women will not crack. Then the manipulation starts, “it was always there” jealousy, envy, flare up tempers out of nowhere, Commitment, "Out of the Question", only you are committed.  

Remember, this was always his character; you just did not see it until he was ready for you to.  Men who like control and power have good manipulation games.  Then you have the smooth talkers. They like to sweep you off your feet. Remember, baby and honey are generic words that most all men say when they see something they want. If he doesn't have a ground line "cell phones and beepers excuses", own apartment or house, can't do spontaneous things and definitely no commitment. When I say, "commitment" not necessarily marriage, but there are others ways to commit to a relationship. "example...all bills in your name". Now do you get where I am coming from when I say, 

"No Commitment" easy to walk away.

"Chosen Man" Depends on YOU!

Ladies Remember, you can find All these characteristics in One Man.

  

Create a Checklist. Of course he will not get all the checks, but at least 70%. Standards too High?
 

Do you have a CHECKLIST?

Ultimate Woman

Trials & Tribulations!

Trials and Tribulations...should they make us stronger or weaker?

I know for me...I can say, "they make me stronger and sometimes I feel tougher".  But then that moment comes when I  feel I need to be fragile and give the strength to someone else.  I am Thankful that I have someone in my life that I can lean on. The biggest mistake we can make when Trials come,  "is shut down" or "be to ourselves". Trial and Tribulations are tests in our life to try our Faith. The enemy tells us we can do this, we do not need anybody or I just need to be by myself.

All we have to do is hold to Faith and persevere until the end~Do not miss your Blessing because you gave up!

"Come unto me, all you that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest". Matthew 11:29 (KJV)

Remember your Faith is Always Tested?

Ultimate Woman

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

This blog is for My Mother!

My Mom is an Ultimate Woman. Wonderful, dynamic, very strong, loving, kind and very much considerate of others. Now it is time for her to receive as see battles Dementia. I am very honored to be her caretaker.  I will not that it is easy, because it not easy nor good to see your mother go through this.  All I want to do is give back what see gave to me!  I have to Thank God, because if it wasn't for Him...I could not have made it this far.  At times you become overwhelmed, tired, frustrated and even wanting to give up, but I know God said, "He would not put no more on us then we can bare"..."We can do all things through Christ who strengthens Us". "Take upon my Yoke, for my Yoke is easy and my Burdens are Light"...

Mom I Love You!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL MOTHERS!

Ultimate Woman