RELATIONSHIPS

This is just my opinion; I'm no expert on Relationships. WE are living in a time where Relationships are just falling apart, no one wants to try to get along. Relationships is about communication, loving one another unconditional as God loves us unconditional, compromising and making it work during the good times and the bad, up and downs, trails and tribulations. Learn to listen to each other and speak edifying words that would build each other up. God gave us two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as hard before we speak. The enemy tells us we do not need each other but that is not true, we do need each other for many different reasons. God created Adam and gave him Eve so he would not be along, that should tell us something. But if you are in an abusive relationship then try to us good judgment, whether you are a female or male. No one deserves to be abused. Remember, we are not perfect; we strive to be perfect so try to see good in each other. Remove, jealousy, insecurity, assumptions, envy, lack of communication and the list could go on...but I think you get where I am going.

If you are in a Relationship Try to Make it Work especially if you have children involved.

Ultimate Woman

 

2013

In 2013, I will not allow people who are; fake, ignorant, angry, envious, jealous, full of hate, malice nor disrespect me in this year.  If you are a person who has just one of these characteristic,  I suggest you just keep stepping. 2012 was a year I was surrounded by people of these dispositions. God has a plan for my life and I will not let the thorns vex my spirit...I love you but I do not have to engage in you especially if you are one of these characters. This should be a year we would want to put ourselves aside and let God work in our lives..If you have dreams, goals and plans these kind of people will try to hinder you, distract you and keeping you from accomplishing what you are set out to do...Remember God is in Control...stay the course  "No Weapon that Forms Against You shall Prosper and Any Tongue that Rise up Against you shall be Condemned.....

LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!!

Ultimate Woman

Happy Holidays!

I am having a wonderful Holiday Season so far!  I spent 3 days with my mom who has dementia, which I am her caretaker. She shared some many stories with me about how she grew up in Alabama and the things they went through during her time. She lives back in the past sometime. My son and nieces came over to the house and fixed an Awesome breakfast for their grandmother. She might not remember at the present moment but as time goes on that will be another story added on to the many stories she still has inside of her. Giving a gift isn’t about what video games I bought someone, how expensive my clothes or shoes were I received or who gave the best gift, actually it's all about the LOVE we have for one another. When we start thinking material then it becomes based on the secular world and not Christ. Whether someone buys us something or not we already have the Perfect Gift “Christ was Born”. WE take so many things for granted not knowing that we are already Blessed with the Perfect Gift!

Ultimate Woman

I went to Jamaica in October "2012" and had the time of my life.

 

 Riu, Ohco Rios is a beautiful place to visit. 

 

 We toured"Dunns River Fall" and had a BLAST!. 

Dunns River Fall is the most beautiful site you could every want to see. The water was cold when you first got in but after that it felt like bath water "warm". 

 We had to climb the waterfall which was not easy at first but working as team made it a lot of fun, much easier as well as meeting new people. 

 Then we did the "Bob Marley Nine Miles" tour. Which was really "4 to 5 hours" from the hotel, which was perfect!

The towns we went through were beautiful, interesting, knowledgeable and educational as we continue to climb hills and mountains. 

 If you every get a chance to go to Jamaica,  I recommend you visit Dunns River Fall and Bob Marley Nine Miles, you will not regret it.

Ultimate Woman

COMMUNICATION

It is sad to say in the World today "Physical Communication" is loosing it's place in families, relationships and friends. We live in a world where Technology has replaced our physical communication. Children don't call their parents anymore, couples don't physically talk and friends have no communication. We are consumed by, texting, emailing and blogging.  No wonder so many people vent in their blogs, no physical communication. Until we discipline ourselves to go back to the way communication was intended, we are going  to be nothing but empty souls walking around lost. We need to amend our families, relationships and friendships back to loving one another, humility for one, compassion, understanding and I can go on..but I think you get what I am saying.  Technology is good, but let's not let it overtake our Physical Communication.

Ultimate Woman

"PERFECTION"

Something I had wrote on my PiNK "Pi Nappa Kappa" Blog and just wanted to share on this blog.

Keep your hands to the plow and your feet tightly firm to the ground and you will advance into perfection. Remember, there will be thorns in your path but know that they are only distractions.

Advance, and never halt, for advancing is perfection. Advance and not fear the thorns in the path, for they draw only corruption.  ~Kahlil Gibran~

Ultimate Woman

Life is Too Short

People we need to put away the nonsense and get ourselves in order. We do not know when it is our time to transform from here, so let us work on our “baggage”, the baggage we carry that is weighing us down. Too much baggage can hinder a friendship and a relationship. 

Why? because we carry it with us.

 Let us "Transform" now! Our minds are free, we are ready and most important, we are Free! Free from the nonsense that we have allowed to filtrate in our minds.

Ultimate Woman