Life is Too Short

People we need to put away the nonsense and get ourselves in order. We do not know when it is our time to transform from here, so let us work on our “baggage”, the baggage we carry that is weighing us down. Too much baggage can hinder a friendship and a relationship. 

Why? because we carry it with us.

 Let us "Transform" now! Our minds are free, we are ready and most important, we are Free! Free from the nonsense that we have allowed to filtrate in our minds.

Ultimate Woman

"Relationships"

"Ladies"

I’m not an expert in Relationships just speaking from experience and others.

Be mindful of your chosen Man.  Pick the man you are looking for, create a checklist.
 

A man who likes power and control enjoys the company of an insecure, low self esteem needed woman. These particular men will not have a relationship with a strong woman. She becomes a threat to him.  He creates arguments that have no meaning to them but to him. He will try to break you in spirit and will keep at it until you break, most strong women will not crack. Then the manipulation starts, “it was always there” jealousy, envy, flare up tempers out of nowhere, Commitment, "Out of the Question", only you are committed.  

Remember, this was always his character; you just did not see it until he was ready for you to.  Men who like control and power have good manipulation games.  Then you have the smooth talkers. They like to sweep you off your feet. Remember, baby and honey are generic words that most all men say when they see something they want. If he doesn't have a ground line "cell phones and beepers excuses", own apartment or house, can't do spontaneous things and definitely no commitment. When I say, "commitment" not necessarily marriage, but there are others ways to commit to a relationship. "example...all bills in your name". Now do you get where I am coming from when I say, 

"No Commitment" easy to walk away.

"Chosen Man" Depends on YOU!

Ladies Remember, you can find All these characteristics in One Man.

  

Create a Checklist. Of course he will not get all the checks, but at least 70%. Standards too High?
 

Do you have a CHECKLIST?

Ultimate Woman

Trials & Tribulations!

Trials and Tribulations...should they make us stronger or weaker?

I know for me...I can say, "they make me stronger and sometimes I feel tougher".  But then that moment comes when I  feel I need to be fragile and give the strength to someone else.  I am Thankful that I have someone in my life that I can lean on. The biggest mistake we can make when Trials come,  "is shut down" or "be to ourselves". Trial and Tribulations are tests in our life to try our Faith. The enemy tells us we can do this, we do not need anybody or I just need to be by myself.

All we have to do is hold to Faith and persevere until the end~Do not miss your Blessing because you gave up!

"Come unto me, all you that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest". Matthew 11:29 (KJV)

Remember your Faith is Always Tested?

Ultimate Woman

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

This blog is for My Mother!

My Mom is an Ultimate Woman. Wonderful, dynamic, very strong, loving, kind and very much considerate of others. Now it is time for her to receive as see battles Dementia. I am very honored to be her caretaker.  I will not that it is easy, because it not easy nor good to see your mother go through this.  All I want to do is give back what see gave to me!  I have to Thank God, because if it wasn't for Him...I could not have made it this far.  At times you become overwhelmed, tired, frustrated and even wanting to give up, but I know God said, "He would not put no more on us then we can bare"..."We can do all things through Christ who strengthens Us". "Take upon my Yoke, for my Yoke is easy and my Burdens are Light"...

Mom I Love You!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL MOTHERS!

Ultimate Woman

Trendy Fashion Sandals Coming Soon!

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Ladies, ladies, ladies...it is time to go where our heart is.Where's that?...It's our Feet...!What Lady do not like a beautiful, bright, elegant shoe or sandal on their feet?"I know I do" and if I do you do too!Well, Try's Trendy Fashion is bringing it right into your home with a click of a button. So don't go anywhere...Stay tune, coming Soon!
Ultimate Woman

What Took So Long?

Yoga pants banned at local high school

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5fotJHtnCM

I do not think spandex and tight straight leg pants should be worn to elementary and high school.  A 15yrs old young man from the school was interviewed by the news.

Question: what do you think about the spandex and tight pants worn to school?

“I think they reveal everything, everything”. Now women who wear spandex outside of with nothing covering their “butt” and everything being revealed, what do you say to the 15yr old that sees everything?  I agree they should be banned from school and further more, “what took so long”???

We women need to start setting better examples for our your women and not let the fashion industry do our job in dressing our young girls and young women.

The average woman now looks like a streetwalker. How can you tell the difference in today’s society? 
Well, you can’t!

Ultimate Woman take your Place!

Women Fashion Revolve or Evolve?

I believe women fashion has evolved and revolved. There was a time women were covered from head to toe…dresses were above the cleavage and length was below the ankles or sometimes pass the ankles. Women’s fashion is like a deregulated industry, free to do whatever.

Women Fashion has become an obsession for some and a “got to have it” even if I cannot afford it for others…Fashion can be a beautiful thing, if it means something positive to you…just so you understand “I like Fashion too”…. I do not allow the fashion world to clothe me according to what they feel is In our Out. I have worn clothes that were out and have received several compliments. Why? “Because I thought it was out “…that’s because women fashion has evolved and revolved…

Do you know what Revolved and Evolved?

Ultimate Woman