Happy Holidays!

I am having a wonderful Holiday Season so far!  I spent 3 days with my mom who has dementia, which I am her caretaker. She shared some many stories with me about how she grew up in Alabama and the things they went through during her time. She lives back in the past sometime. My son and nieces came over to the house and fixed an Awesome breakfast for their grandmother. She might not remember at the present moment but as time goes on that will be another story added on to the many stories she still has inside of her. Giving a gift isn’t about what video games I bought someone, how expensive my clothes or shoes were I received or who gave the best gift, actually it's all about the LOVE we have for one another. When we start thinking material then it becomes based on the secular world and not Christ. Whether someone buys us something or not we already have the Perfect Gift “Christ was Born”. WE take so many things for granted not knowing that we are already Blessed with the Perfect Gift!

Ultimate Woman

I went to Jamaica in October "2012" and had the time of my life.

 

 Riu, Ohco Rios is a beautiful place to visit. 

 

 We toured"Dunns River Fall" and had a BLAST!. 

Dunns River Fall is the most beautiful site you could every want to see. The water was cold when you first got in but after that it felt like bath water "warm". 

 We had to climb the waterfall which was not easy at first but working as team made it a lot of fun, much easier as well as meeting new people. 

 Then we did the "Bob Marley Nine Miles" tour. Which was really "4 to 5 hours" from the hotel, which was perfect!

The towns we went through were beautiful, interesting, knowledgeable and educational as we continue to climb hills and mountains. 

 If you every get a chance to go to Jamaica,  I recommend you visit Dunns River Fall and Bob Marley Nine Miles, you will not regret it.

Ultimate Woman

COMMUNICATION

It is sad to say in the World today "Physical Communication" is loosing it's place in families, relationships and friends. We live in a world where Technology has replaced our physical communication. Children don't call their parents anymore, couples don't physically talk and friends have no communication. We are consumed by, texting, emailing and blogging.  No wonder so many people vent in their blogs, no physical communication. Until we discipline ourselves to go back to the way communication was intended, we are going  to be nothing but empty souls walking around lost. We need to amend our families, relationships and friendships back to loving one another, humility for one, compassion, understanding and I can go on..but I think you get what I am saying.  Technology is good, but let's not let it overtake our Physical Communication.

Ultimate Woman

"PERFECTION"

Something I had wrote on my PiNK "Pi Nappa Kappa" Blog and just wanted to share on this blog.

Keep your hands to the plow and your feet tightly firm to the ground and you will advance into perfection. Remember, there will be thorns in your path but know that they are only distractions.

Advance, and never halt, for advancing is perfection. Advance and not fear the thorns in the path, for they draw only corruption.  ~Kahlil Gibran~

Ultimate Woman

Life is Too Short

People we need to put away the nonsense and get ourselves in order. We do not know when it is our time to transform from here, so let us work on our “baggage”, the baggage we carry that is weighing us down. Too much baggage can hinder a friendship and a relationship. 

Why? because we carry it with us.

 Let us "Transform" now! Our minds are free, we are ready and most important, we are Free! Free from the nonsense that we have allowed to filtrate in our minds.

Ultimate Woman

"Relationships"

"Ladies"

I’m not an expert in Relationships just speaking from experience and others.

Be mindful of your chosen Man.  Pick the man you are looking for, create a checklist.
 

A man who likes power and control enjoys the company of an insecure, low self esteem needed woman. These particular men will not have a relationship with a strong woman. She becomes a threat to him.  He creates arguments that have no meaning to them but to him. He will try to break you in spirit and will keep at it until you break, most strong women will not crack. Then the manipulation starts, “it was always there” jealousy, envy, flare up tempers out of nowhere, Commitment, "Out of the Question", only you are committed.  

Remember, this was always his character; you just did not see it until he was ready for you to.  Men who like control and power have good manipulation games.  Then you have the smooth talkers. They like to sweep you off your feet. Remember, baby and honey are generic words that most all men say when they see something they want. If he doesn't have a ground line "cell phones and beepers excuses", own apartment or house, can't do spontaneous things and definitely no commitment. When I say, "commitment" not necessarily marriage, but there are others ways to commit to a relationship. "example...all bills in your name". Now do you get where I am coming from when I say, 

"No Commitment" easy to walk away.

"Chosen Man" Depends on YOU!

Ladies Remember, you can find All these characteristics in One Man.

  

Create a Checklist. Of course he will not get all the checks, but at least 70%. Standards too High?
 

Do you have a CHECKLIST?

Ultimate Woman

Trials & Tribulations!

Trials and Tribulations...should they make us stronger or weaker?

I know for me...I can say, "they make me stronger and sometimes I feel tougher".  But then that moment comes when I  feel I need to be fragile and give the strength to someone else.  I am Thankful that I have someone in my life that I can lean on. The biggest mistake we can make when Trials come,  "is shut down" or "be to ourselves". Trial and Tribulations are tests in our life to try our Faith. The enemy tells us we can do this, we do not need anybody or I just need to be by myself.

All we have to do is hold to Faith and persevere until the end~Do not miss your Blessing because you gave up!

"Come unto me, all you that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest". Matthew 11:29 (KJV)

Remember your Faith is Always Tested?

Ultimate Woman