Tuesday, June 26, 2012

"Relationships"





"Ladies"


I’m not an expert in Relationships just speaking from experience and others.

Be mindful of your chosen Man.  Pick the man you are looking for, create a checklist.
 

A man who likes power and control enjoys the company of an insecure, low self esteem needed woman. These particular men will not have a relationship with a strong woman. She becomes a threat to him.  He creates arguments that have no meaning to them but to him. He will try to break you in spirit and will keep at it until you break, most strong women will not crack. Then the manipulation starts, “it was always there” jealousy, envy, flare up tempers out of nowhere, Commitment, "Out of the Question", only you are committed.  

Remember, this was always his character; you just did not see it until he was ready for you to.  Men who like control and power have good manipulation games.  Then you have the smooth talkers. They like to sweep you off your feet. Remember, baby and honey are generic words that most all men say when they see something they want. If he doesn't have a ground line "cell phones and beepers excuses", own apartment or house, can't do spontaneous things and definitely no commitment. When I say, "commitment" not necessarily marriage, but there are others ways to commit to a relationship. "example...all bills in your name". Now do you get where I am coming from when I say, 

"No Commitment" easy to walk away.



"Chosen Man" Depends on YOU!

Ladies Remember, you can find All these characteristics in One Man.

  

Create a Checklist. Of course he will not get all the checks, but at least 70%. Standards too High?
 

Do you have a CHECKLIST?


Sunday, June 10, 2012

Trials & Tribulations!

Trials and Tribulations...should they make us stronger or weaker?

I know for me...I can say, "they make me stronger and sometimes I feel tougher".  But then that moment comes when I  feel I need to be fragile and give the strength to someone else.  I am Thankful that I have someone in my life that I can lean on. The biggest mistake we can make when Trials come,  "is shut down" or "be to ourselves". Trial and Tribulations are tests in our life to try our Faith. The enemy tells us we can do this, we do not need anybody or I just need to be by myself.

All we have to do is hold to Faith and persevere until the end~Do not miss your Blessing because you gave up!

"Come unto me, all you that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest". Matthew 11:29 (KJV)

Remember your Faith is Always Tested?